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  • Don't Psychoanalyze MJ's Memorial Service


    Whew Willa, you offer some tricky psychoanalysis here. None of us can say what the Jacksons were thinking on that stage with Paris, or what they were trying to project to the YouTube audience. What we can safely say is that despite being a dysfunctional family, they are clearly a family in grief. I think it’s unfair to try to interpret their intentions. Would it have been better, or more believable, if they had not embraced Paris and just stood off to the side and whispered to her to suck it up? Is it really that implausible that with Michael now gone they would want to surround his children in a protective cocoon? ... (Read more at DoubleX.com.)
  • Children Speaking at Public Funerals: Cathartic or Cruel?


    So. That happened. The bizarre spectacle of Michael Jackson's funeral was everywhere yesterday, and the most talked-about moment was when Michael's daughter, Paris Jackson, went up on stage and told the world, "Ever since I was born, Daddy has been the best father you could ever imagine. And I just wanted to say I love him so much." Her Aunt Janet softly urged her forward and said, "speak up." Though I don't doubt Paris's emotion was genuine, the thing felt creepily staged ... (Read more at DoubleX.com.)

  • Heath Ledger Profile Shows How Fame Can Destroy the Psyche


    Sara, you said that childhood stardom was such a destructive force for Michael Jackson, and you were right. But the current issue of Vanity Fair has a cover story on Heath Ledger that shows for a sensitive adult, stardom ain't all its cracked up to be, either. This isn't a new idea: That's why "the price of fame" is such a cliched phrase. But Peter Biskind's story of the Ledger demise is particularly heart-stomping, since Heath was so young, so talented, and being a movie star really did ruin every aspect of his life ... (Read more at DoubleX.com.)
  • Follow the Second Star to the Left and Straight on 'Til Morning


    Now that Michael Jackson has gotten what always seemed to be his wish for eternal youth, I expect participants in his secretive life will emerge for a last reminder of the extremely gifted pop star’s lifetime of sad dysfunction. The Jackson Family will surely have a stake in resolving who will attain custody of Jackson’s offspring. Any dispute will no doubt also involve Debby Rowe, the dermatologist’s nurse who bore Jackson his oldest two, 11-year-old son Prince and 10-year-old daughter Paris. Rowe seems to have upheld her end of their strange bargain, but their businesslike marriage ended in businesslike divorce. (He found a less personally taxing way to reproduce by using a surrogate to create his third child, also named Prince II, but nicknamed Blanket).

    Speaking of mothers, I doubt we’ll hear again from the housekeeper at Jackson’s amusement park ranch, whose son testified he was molested by her ... (Read more at DoubleX.com.) 
  • What Michael Jackson Can Teach the Gosselins


    I was particularly touched by Emily Yoffe's remembrance of Michael Jackson as the young, innocent, and extraordinarily talented boy he once was, before his life went terribly wrong. Despite such cautionary tales, parents continue to push their kids in front of the cameras long before the age of consent. Just look at the children of Jon & Kate. 

    It's already too easy picturing the Gosselin brood all grown up: the plastic surgeries to come, the TV specials of their family "reunions" (complete with vicious sibling rivalries), the "comebacks" for child stars who are famous merely for having always been famous. Maybe they'll be lucky. Their fame, after all, is diluted by ... (Read more at DoubleX.com.)

  • Michael, Pop, and Race


    A friend told me last night the sort of thing that you only admit when you’re standing in a bar where the entire room is grooving on the 18th song in a marathon of Michael: that recently, for no real reason, he had read through a bunch of the coverage of Michael right after Thriller was released. The general sentiment at the time, he told us, was awe at what Michael’s music did to existing standards of “black” and “white” music. Back then, Billboard had its top-10 mainstream chart, and a separate “Black LPs” chart, and there was little overlap between the two. Michael changed that.

    I was less than born when Thriller came out in 1983, so for me, it was strange last night to think of Michael as he once was: someone who raised issues of race not by being some ever-changing hybrid of black and white, but by being black. I remember ... (Read more at DoubleX.com.)
  • Reclaiming the King of Pop


    Michael Jackson was blasting on the streets of New York City last night, out of car windows, restaurants, bars, and radios set up next to makeshift fruit stands. People were paying their respects, but also up to something more. They were taking the first steps towards reclaiming his music, turning it on, turning it up, and finally, finally, ... (Read more at DoubleX.com.)
  • Last Moments of Michael


    Tracking celebrities' final moments has become a kind of collective, Internet parlor game. The e-mails start flying: Who's getting the best scoop? Who can spot the first credible death announcement? I'm currently standing vigil over Michael Jackson's Wikipedia page, wondering if I can catch the moment when someone adds in a date of death and all the verbs fall, like dominoes, into the past tense. ... (Read more at DoubleX.com.)
  • The Thriller is Gone


    Has there ever been a major celebrity who so wholly turned himself into a freak? He destroyed his face (the tabloids loved to get photos of him sans surgical mask, a prothestic tip taped to the end of his ruined nose), he was involved in endless pedophillic scandals, and it was awful to think of him as a father. What happens now to his children, who have been trapped in his mansions, forced to live out his fantasy of the childhood he never had? And don't you just wish you could reach out to the beautiful, supremely talented boy he once was and make it all ... (Read more at DoubleX.com.)

  • Two Pop Icons Lived in Opposite Ways


    The Los Angeles Times confirms that Michael Jackson has died of cardiac arrest. Two pop icons down in a day, and to me their lives moved in opposite directions. After her flash appearance as a sex symbol, Fawcett spent the rest of her years backing away from that image, playing (and looking like) a battered spouse in the Apostle, making a video about her anal cancer, generally reminding us that body beautiful is fleeting, and we all go to dust in the end ... (Read more at DoubleX.com.) 
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